Monday, February 5, 2024

The search for the father of Brigida Kulinska or "Are you my father?"

 I'm beginning to feel that this story is a bit like the book, 


As mentioned in another post, Brygida was born in 28 June 1885 in Gostynin, Poland.

It (the baptism) took place in the town of Gostynin, on June 29, 1885, at 9 a.m., Emilia Lach, a midwife, 56 years old from Gostynin, appeared in the presence of Franciszek Dolecki, a farmer, 28 years old, and Walenty Zdziennicki, 68 years old, both from Gostynin, and presented the child. She announced that she was born yesterday in Gostynin at 9 am to Józefa Kulińska née Dalecka, 36, and Karol Kuliński, a worker from Gostynin. On the same day (10 July 1885 - Gregorian calendar), the one-day-old baby was baptized and on that day she was named Brygida. The godparents were Franciszek Doliński and Marianna Nowakowska.


Notice how Karol did not show up to inform about the birth of Brygida, which was customary at the time, and the midwife only claims that he is the father of the baby.This led me on a wild goose chase to try to figure out who was the father of Brygida if it was not Karol Kulinska.

An in-depth analysis of DNA matches led to three entirely separate groups of descendants related on my mother's paternal side:

  • Dalecki clan 
  • Józefowicz clan
  • Jankowska/Kolasinski clan

There was a fourth line: Medwadowski, but I had until yesterday (14 Feb 2025), discounted this as there were several matches that led back to the Dalecki line. But my thought was that if there was a connection it had to go back to the late 1700s.  More on this later. 

The Dalecki clan can be ruled out as we know that Karol Kulinska was not Brygida's father, leaving only the later two.

We're going to focus on the Józefowicz clan as the Józefowicz family was from Rościszewo, Poland which is not far from Gostynin.  There are also many more Józefowicz in the Gostynin area than in Rościszewo, so perhaps Jan was originally from Gostynin. 

But most importantly, the most significant DNA match to my mom on MyHeritage (not connected to the Dalecki line) is Carl at 87.9 cM, 5 shared segments, with 43.4 cM as the largest segment.  Carl is also on Ancestry and matches at 83 cM (unweighted), 4 segments, with 44 cM as the longest segment.

Carl also matches to 

  • Susan (me):67 cM
  • KL: 109 cM

And my mom, Carl, and KL share one triangulated DNA segment, confirming that they have a common ancestor.

I've been able to confirm that KP and my mom share 78 cM DNA and that KP and Carl are both descendants of Ignacy Józefowicz (b. Abt. 1857 in Kolonia Lubstyn, which was partitioned to Prussia at the time). Ignacy was unmarried in early 1885, the year of Brygida's birth but married Rozalia Malinowska sometime that year. 

Ignacy's brother Jan Józefowicz married Marianna Jaworska in 1877. Using a combination of data from several genealogy sites, I've been able to confirm that five DNA matches are descendants of Jan.

So we have a total of 7 DNA matches that trace back to Jan Józefowicz + Marianna Łażyńska, parents of Ignacy and Jan. 

I've communicated extensively with Carl and KL and have provided additional documentation. 

  • Carl confirmed the connection to Ignacy and Rozalia Malinowska, which allowed me to use Geneteka to go back a few generations. I've also been able to find the marriage record for Ignacy and Rozalia. Ignacy's parents are Jan and Marianna Łążyńska.
  • I have located an immigration record for Stanislawa Jozefowicz (1911). Her final destination was Holyoke, MA. It lists her father as Synacy (I presume Ignacy) and a sibling as Madise, who is living in the US. Her residence is listed as Siemiotkowo, which I presume is Siemiątkowo, Mazowieckie, Poland. It is located near Gradzanowa, Mazowieckie, Poland. This matches up with the Stanislawa that married Stanislaw Zych. I believe Madise is actually Waldyslawa. The ages match up with your record, however, I haven't been able to find a birth record on Geneteka.

Using DNAPainter and the DNA matches, it is predicted that there is a 85% chance that Ignacy was Brygida's father. (71% that she is a half-sibling to the other children; 14% chance that she is a full sibling). The combined odds ratio is 1220 that she was a half-sibling to the other children and 242 for full-sibling. The remaining possibilities include an unknown child of Jan. And so for now, we shall assume that Brygida's father was Ignacy Józefowicz.  A summary of the genealogy is below, but for now, let's go back to Medwadowski.

For a long time, I've been baffled by a match on MyHeritage to Kryztyna Bętlejewska (105.4 cM). Krystyna was from Otwock, south of Warsaw and quite some distance from Gostynin. Gabriela Sawicka, Krystyna grand-niece helped to sort out the connect to the family. Kryztyna is the great granddaughter of Jakub Medwadowska. Jakub's brother Leonard Teodor (b. 1849 in Gostynin) was the godfather of Anna Kulińska, Brygida's half sister.

 

So the two families definitely were connected. 

Now here's where things get turned upside down. Daniel Banasiak found that Józefa Dalecka (Brygida's mother) and  Leonard Teodor were married on 13 May 1931, after her first husband Karol had passed away as Józefa  is listed as a widow.  While we cannot find a death record for Karol, we do know that he was with Józefa in ~1915 when they were caring for Marianna's two children Wanda and Adam Palczewski. Adam married a month before Józefa. So Józefa and Teodor married at ages 77 and 81, respectively. Teodor had never married until then. Apparently, they really loved one another.

 

Surprisingly, Dorota Banasiak, Daniel's mother and great granddaughter of Adam Kuliński, Brygida's half-brother and Kryztyna Bętlejewska have a DNA match of 92 cM. Dorota and my mom are a 115 cM match. And the autoclusters function on MyHeritage places Dorota, my mom, and Kryztyna in a cluster, suggesting a common ancestor. Now, are Adam and Brygida actually full siblings? Is Teodor the father of both of them? What about their sister Marianna? Well, one of her descendants has matches to Kenneth and Diane Puryczcki, descendants of Rosalia Medwadowska, sister of Jakub and Teodor.  Another has a match to a descendant of Wicktoria Medwadowska, distant cousin of the Medwadowski siblings.

Using the "What are the odds" tool on DNAPainter, there is an 93.6% Leonard Teodor Medwadowski (b. 1849) was the biological parent of Brygida and full sibling of Adam and Marianna. The combined odds ratio for Teodor being the father of Brygida and full sibling of Adam and Marianna is 306,707. There is a 6% chance that  Leonard Teodor's father Ludwik is Brygida's father. However, if I set the tool so that Brygida and Adam and Marianna are half siblings, the odds reduce to 53%, with a 45% chance that  Ludwik is Brygida's father. He would have been 68 at the time of Brygida's birth. Unfortunately, I can't find a death record for Ludwik.

Perhaps Karol Kuliński is not the father of either Brygida, Adam, or Marianna and Leonard Teodor Medwadowski is the father of all three. And it wasn't until 1931 that Józefa could marry her true love!



Józefowicz lineage

1.Wojciech Jozefowicz  d: Deceased
+ Teresia Borkowska   b: 1777m: 1799 in Prątnica, Polandd: Deceased. 
2.Jan Jozefowicz  b: 1797d: Deceased
+ Marianna Łążyńska  b: 10 Aug 1820 in prątnica, Warminsko-Mazurskie, Polandm: 6 Nov 1843 in Pronikau, Löbau, Westpreußen, Preußen, Deutschland d: Deceased
3.Jan “John” Józefowicz  b: Abt. 1849 in Dombrovia, Poland/Russiad: 2 Dec 1917 in Buffalo, Erie, New York, United States of America; age: 68
+ Marianna Jaworska  b: Abt. 1850 in Polandm: 1877 in Rościszewo, Mazowieckie, Polandd: 30 Apr 1937 in South Bend, St Joseph, Indiana, USA; age: 87
4.Josephine Jozefowicz  b: 3 Mar 1885 in Polandd: 25 Jul 1964 in Pittsburgh, Allegheny, Pennsylvania, USA; age: 79
+ Stanislaus Rakoczy  b: 25 July 1880 in Polandm: 30 Oct 1905 in Allegheny, Pennsylvania, USAd: 1930 in Allegheny County, Pennsylvania, United States of America; age: 49
5.Stefania Rakoczy  b: 19 Aug 1906 in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvaniad: Deceased
5.Czeslaw (Chester) Rakoczy  b: 3 Nov 1907 in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvaniad: Deceased
5.Helena Rokoczy  b: 29 Apr 1911 in Pittsburgh, Allegheny, Pennsylvania, USAd: 1 October 1987 in Pittsburgh, Allegheny County, Pennsylvania, United States of America; age: 76
4.Antoni Jozefowicz  b: 13 Jun 1891 in Gradzanowa Kolonja, Polandd: 30 Sep 1978 in Windham, Connecticut, USA; age: 87
+ Zofia Kalisiak  b: 21 Sep 1896 in Brzozów Nowy, Mazowieckie, Polandm: 26 Jan 1914 in Norwich, New London, Connecticut, USAd: 30 Sept 1973 in Willimantic, Windham, Connecticut, USA; age: 77
5.Stephen A. Jozefowicz (Josephs)  b: 30 Oct 1914 in Norwich Connecticutd: 2000; age: 85
+ Mary Lucas  b: 11 Jan 1919 in Willimantic, Windham, Connecticut, USAd: 17 Apr 2013 in Willimantic, Windham, Connecticut, USA; age: 94
5.Stanley Jozefowicz  b: 25 Mar 1918 in Willimantic, Connecticut, USAd: 1995; age: 76
+ Loretta Elsie Russell  b: 1923d: 2005; age: 82
5.Stanislaw Jozefowicz  b: 25 Mar 1918 in Willimantic, Connecticutd: 14 Mar 1995; age: 76
5.Irene Victoria Jozefowicz  b: 8 Oct 1921 in Willimantic, Windham, Connecticut, USAd: 17 Dec 2015 in Willimantic, Windham, Connecticut, USA; age: 94
+ Stanley F. Cichon  b: 1918 in Connecticutm: 18 Oct 1947 in Windham, Connecticut, USAd: 2011; age: 93
5.Helen Josefowicz  b: abt 1924 in Connecticutd: Bef. 1930; age: 6
4.Waldyslawa “Edna” Józefowicz  b: 8 Jan 1892 in Russ/Polandd: 23 Dec 1977 in Hadley, Hampshire, Massachusetts, USA; age: 85
+ Joseph Scoble  b: 1886 in New York, USAd: 1918 in Hadley, Massachusetts, USA; age: 32
+ Wawryzniec (Lawrence) Woszczyna  b: 29 Jun 1896 in Wola Romzowska, Austria, Polandd: 1942; age: 45
5.Adele Scoble  b: 11 August 1915 in North Hadley, Hampshire County, Massachusetts, United States of Americad: 10 Dec 2001 in Hadley, Hampshire, Massachusetts, United States of America; age: 86
+ Ferdinand John Zaganiac  b: 10 Dec 1916 in Gilbertville, Massachusettsd: 1928 in Ware, Massachusetts, USA; age: 11
5.Stanislaus Joseph Scoble  b: 21 March 1917 in North Hadley, Hampshire County, Massachusetts, United States of Americad: 1945 in Northampton, Hampshire County, Massachusetts, United States of America; age: 27
5.Adeline Wosczyna  b: 3 Dec 1920 in Hadley, Hampshire, Massachusetts, USAd: 12 Sep 1981 in Holyoke, Hampden, Massachusetts, USA; age: 60
+ Matthew Wierzbicki  b: 23 Jan 1922 in Holyoke Hamp, Massachusetts, USAd: 12 Apr 1980 in Holyoke, Massachusetts; age: 58
5.Jennie Wogcyna  b: abt 1921 in Massachusettsd: Deceased
5.Arela Cecelia Wosczyna  b: 11 December 1922 in Hadley, Hampshire County, Massachusetts, United States of Americam: 1940 in Hadley, Massachusetts, USAd: 6 November 2016 in Hadley, Hampshire County, Massachusetts, United States of America; age: 93
+ Frank Berestka  b: abt 1916 in Massachusettsd: Deceased
5.Justina Woscyna  b: 12 April 1925 in Hadley, Hampshire County, Massachusetts, United States of Americad: 17 Sep 2022 in Hadley, Hampshire, Massachusetts, USA; age: 97
+ John Kzcowski  m: 1947 in Hadley, Hampshire, Massachusetts, USAd: 17 Oct 2002
5.Regina E. Woszczyna   b: 3 October 1927 in Hadley, Hampshire County, Massachusetts, United States of Americad: 15 December 2011 in Greenfield, Franklin County, Massachusetts, United States of America; age: 84
+ John A Klemyk  b: abt 1924m: 7 Feb 1948 in Sunderland, Massachusetts, USA
4.Józef “Joseph” Jozefowicz  b: abt 1901 in Polandm: Polandd: Deceased in USA
+ Victoria Grzeblelucha  b: abt 1907 in Polandd: Deceased
5.Leon Josefowicz  b: 2 Apr 1929 in Otherd: 16 Apr 1999; age: 70
5.Stanley Josefowicz  b: abt 1933 in Poland
5.Joseph Josefowicz Jr  b: abt 1939 in Poland
4.Apolonia Jozefowicz  d: Deceased
+ Bronisław Olszewski  m: 1907 in Gradzanowo, Mazowieckie, Polandd: Deceased
5.Franciszek Olszewski  b: 1908 in Gradzanowo, Siemiątkowo Rechty, Mazowieckie, Polandd: Deceased
5.Stanisława Olszewska  b: 05 Apr 1910 in Gradzanowo, Siemiątkowo Rechty, Mazowieckie, Polandd: Deceased
5.Antoni Olszewski  b: 09 Jan 1913 in Gradzanowo, Siemiątkowo Rechty, Mazowieckie, Polandd: Deceased
5.Konstanty Olszewski  b: 19 Apr 1916 in Gradzanowo, Siemiątkowo Rechty, Mazowieckie, Polandd: 28 Jul 1917 in Gradzanowo, Siemiątkowo Rechty, Mazowieckie, Poland; age: 1
3.Ignacy Jozefowicz  b: 1857 in Kolonia Lubstyn, Prussian Partition, Polandd: 1959; age: 102
+ Rozalia Malinowska  b: 5 October 1866 in Kuski, Gmina Rościszewo, Mazowieckie, Polandm: 1885 in Rościszewo, Mazowieckie, Polandd: 13 Oct 1920 in Gradzanowo, Kolonia Siemiątkowska, Mazowieckie, Poland; age: 54
4.Władysław Jozefowicz  b: Abt. 1886d: 1886 in Gradzanowo, Kolonia Siemiątkowska, Mazowieckie, Poland; age: 0
4.Józefa Jozefowicz  b: Abt. 1888d: Deceased
+ Józef Brzeziński  m: 1906 in Gradzanowo, Mazowieckie, Polandd: Deceased
5.Jan Brzeziński  b: 1917 in Gradzanow, Siemiątkowo Koziebrodzkie, Polandd: Deceased
5.Sylwester Brzeziński  b: 1920 in Gradzanowo, Siemiątkowo Koziebrodzki, Polanded: Deceased
+ Marian Rogowski  m: 22 Feb 1922 in Gradzanowo, Mazowieckie, Polandd: Deceased
4.Franciszka Jozefowicz  b: Abt. 1890d: Deceased
+ Stanisław Skawerski  m: 25 Feb 1922 in Gradzanowo, Mazowieckie, Polandd: Deceased
+ Franciszek Bednarski  d: Deceased
5.Stefan Bednarski  b: 1911 in Gradzanowo, Adolfowo, Wielkopolskie, Polandd: Deceased
5.Stanisław Bednarski  b: 1913 in Gradzanowo, Adolfowo, Wielkopolskie, Polandd: Deceased
5.Edmund Bednarski  b: 1915 in Gradzanowo, Adolfowo, Wielkopolskie, Polandd: Deceased
5.Stanisława Bednarska  b: 1917 in Gradzanowo, Adolfowo, Wielkopolskie, Polandd: Deceased
5.Antoni Bednarski  b: 1919 in Gradzanowo, Adolfowo, Wielkopolskie, Polandd: Deceased
4.Władysława Jozefowicz  b: Abt. 1891d: Deceased
4. Stanislawa “Stacia” Jozefowicz  b: 22 Jun 1894 in Siemiątkowo, Mazowieckie, Polandd: 11 Oct 1962 in Chicopee, Massachusetts, USA; age: 68
+ Stanislaw Zych  b: abt 1893 in Polandd: 28 Dec 1970 in Chicopee, Massachusetts; age: 77
5.Violet Alice Zych  b: 8 Feb 1925 in Chicopee Ham, Massachusettsd: 1 Sep 1999 in Bethesda, Montgomery, Maryland, USA; age: 74
+ Fredrick William Rogers Tibbetts  b: abt 1922 in Massachusettsm: Abt 1947 in Chicopee, Massachusetts, USAd: 19 Apr 1989 in Winchendon, Worcester County, Massachusetts, United States of America; age: 67
4.Helena Józefowicz  b: Abt. 1898d: Deceased
+ Jan Grabowski  m: 02 Feb 1916 in Gradzanowo Kościelne, Mazowieckie, Polandd: Deceased
5.Jadwiga Grabowska  b: 1916 in Gradzanowo, Kolonia Siemiątkowska, Mazowieckie, Poland
5.Salomea Grabowska  b: 1920 in Gradzanowo, Kolonia Siemiątkowska, Mazowieckie, Poland
5.Jadwiga Grabowski  b: 1922 in Gradzanowo, Kolonia Siemiątkowska
4.Czesław Jozefowicz  b: 1901 in Gradzanowo, Kolonia Siemiątkowska, Mazowieckie, Polandd: 1902 in Gradzanowo, Kolonia Siemiątkowska, Mazowieckie, Poland; age: 1
4.Jozef Jozefowicz  b: 26 Mar 1901 in Budzislaw, Polandm: Polandd: Jul 1986 in Poughkeepsie, Dutchess, New York, USA; age: 85
+ Victoria Grzebielucha  b: abt 1907 in Polandd: Deceased
5.Leon Jozefowicz  b: abt 1929 in Poland
5.Stanley Jozefowicz  b: abt 1933 in Poland
5.Joseph Jozefowicz  b: abt 1939 in Poland
4.Marianna Jozefowicz  b: Abt. 1902d: Deceased
+ Fabian Mieczysław Dudziński  m: 20 Sep 1922 in Gradzanowo, Mazowieckie, Polandd: Deceased
4.Katherine (Kazimiera) H. Jozefowicz  b: 15 Jan 1903 in Polandd: 8 Jan 1986 in Orange, Franklin, Massachusetts, USA; age: 82
+ John A Bogel  b: abt 1900 in Massachusettsd: Deceased
5.Richard Bogel  b: abt 1934 in Massachusetts
5.Lenarda Kazmiera Bogel  b: 1938 in Orange, Massachusetts, USA
4.Genowefa Jozefowicz  b: 5 Jul 1906 in Gradzanowo, Kolonia Siemiątkowska, Mazowieckie, Polandd: Deceased
+ Francis Marjanski  d: Deceased
5.Lucien W. Marjanski  b: 7 Jan 1935 in Franced: 4 Dec 2009 in Lowell, Middlesex, Massachusetts, USA; age: 74
+ Theresa Kobylanska  b: 1 Sep 1939 in Polandm: 1957d: 13 June 2013 in Chicopee, Hampden, Massachusetts; age: 73
+ Jozefa Dalecka  d: Deceased
4.Brygida Kulinska  b: 1885d: Deceased
+ Wladyslaw Jankowski  b: abt 1884d: 4 Nov 1947; age: 63
5.Jonas Nadwodny  b. 7 Sep 1907 d: 1993.
 
Medwadowski line:
1.Jan Medwadowski  b: 1775d: 31 Dec 1829 in Gąbin, Suchy pień, Mazowieckie, Poland; age: 54
+ Józefa Stachurska  b: 1786m: 13 Jun 1812 in Koźle, Tymianka, Lodzkie, Polandd: 16 Jan 1824 in Gostynin, Mazowieckie, Poland; age: 38
2.Antoni Medwadowski  b: 5 Jun 1815 in Gostynin, Mazowieckie, Polandd: Deceased
+ Waleria Bagińska  b: 6 May 1838 in Gostynin, Mazowieckie, Polandm: 1860 in Gostynin, Mazowieckie, Polandd: Deceased.
2.Ludwik Augustyn Medwadowski  b: 16 Aug 1817 in Gostynin, Mazowieckie, Polandd: Deceased
+ Agnieszka Benecka Jankowska  b: 1820m: 1839 in Dobrzyków, Mazowieckie, Polandd: Deceased.
3.Franciszka Medwadowski  b: 1839 in Dobrzyków, Mazowieckie, Polandd: Deceased
+ Feliks Kubicki  m: 8 Nov 1863 in Dobrzyków, Matyldów, Mazowieckie, Polandd: Deceased
3.Marianna Medwadowska  b: 1841 in Bielsk, Mazowieckie, Polandd: Deceased
+ Mateusz Szymański  b: 19 Sep 1838 in Witowo, Faliszewo, Kujawsko-Pomorskie, Polandm: 1860 in Gostynin, Mazowieckie, Polandd: 1908 in Wyszków (pow. wyszkowski), Nadgórze, Mazowieckie, Poland; age: 69
3.Jakub Medwadowski  b: 1845d: Deceased
+ Marianna Żychowicz  m: 1875 in Gostynin, Mazowieckie, Polandd: 14 Feb 1907 in Sikórz, Mazowieckie, Poland
3.Andrzej Medwadowski  b: 1848 in Płock św. Bartłomieja, Mazowieckie, Polandd: Deceased
3.Leonard Teodor Medwadowski  b: 1849 in Dobrzyków, Mazowieckie, Polandd: Deceased
+ Józefa Kulińska  m: 1931 in Gostynin, Gostynin, Mazowieckie,


 

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